Wednesday, April 12, 2006
Forgive is to Forget.....
To forget is to Forgive....
要原谅就要忘。。。
要忘记就要原谅。。。
Besides doing this, nothing else could be done....
Even you have done your very best to forget everything that you wish to....you will realise you can never forget...You will just feel soo tired and unhappy everyday...
even you force yourself
not to think;
not to rememeber;
not to recall whatever words there were mention;
even pass by the places that have memories;ETC...
YOU CAN NEVER FORGET and still feeling hurt...
you will never be recovered nor feeling any better...
"UNLESS you are willing to FORGIVE everything that had happened..." this is the only way to FORGET....
If you can't even get through it by yourself...no matter how many encouragements or accompanies by your good buddies, you will still be toturing yourself over this kind of 'people'...
Is it worth it?
>Changing yourself just to please 'this person'?
>Plan soo many surprises and do soo many stuffs just to get a smile and appreciation from "this person", worth it?
>Put all your pride and temper aside just to aviod any unhappiness?
etc and etc....
So-called promises? nice and sweet words?
It can only be trusted if the person have done it out by actions....and not just say it out by his/her mouth...
Or else, in the end, you will realise that all these will be carried out by yourself instead of the person who had said these...
most importantly, when you overjoyed over all this so-called promises and sweet words...
you will just forget that actually all these words actually had been repeated SO many times by 'this person' to other people outside...
Asking yourself you want to like this for the rest of your life like that mah?!!
NO!!!....
torturing yourself over 'a person' whom you don't even have any idea that he had really love Or care about you before?!!
afterall, do you think you should FORGET? FORGIVE maybe a diffcult stage...but other then that, nothing else can be done...but you will realise after doing this...
your heart will be soo much better and become more happy...
Or else, even right now, A right person is already standing right in front of you, waiting for you, you will never be able notice at all..
Finally i realise all these facts and truths now, or else i will HATE who i am now...
In fact, i should say a big thank you to 'this person'...let me learn a such a valuable lesson and let me realise how a person can change soo much within such a short period...how scarey a person can be...
But i'm still looking forward to the days, where me and him can just be friends again bah...
(because i know when i'm ready to be friends again with 'this person' means he has no longer hold any rights to get a vacancy in my heart again...)
In fact i'm ready for that, but i know 'this person' may not be able to do that...
I just want to get someone who really love who i am...
To forget is to Forgive....
要原谅就要忘。。。
要忘记就要原谅。。。
Besides doing this, nothing else could be done....
Even you have done your very best to forget everything that you wish to....you will realise you can never forget...You will just feel soo tired and unhappy everyday...
even you force yourself
not to think;
not to rememeber;
not to recall whatever words there were mention;
even pass by the places that have memories;ETC...
YOU CAN NEVER FORGET and still feeling hurt...
you will never be recovered nor feeling any better...
"UNLESS you are willing to FORGIVE everything that had happened..." this is the only way to FORGET....
If you can't even get through it by yourself...no matter how many encouragements or accompanies by your good buddies, you will still be toturing yourself over this kind of 'people'...
Is it worth it?
>Changing yourself just to please 'this person'?
>Plan soo many surprises and do soo many stuffs just to get a smile and appreciation from "this person", worth it?
>Put all your pride and temper aside just to aviod any unhappiness?
etc and etc....
So-called promises? nice and sweet words?
It can only be trusted if the person have done it out by actions....and not just say it out by his/her mouth...
Or else, in the end, you will realise that all these will be carried out by yourself instead of the person who had said these...
most importantly, when you overjoyed over all this so-called promises and sweet words...
you will just forget that actually all these words actually had been repeated SO many times by 'this person' to other people outside...
Asking yourself you want to like this for the rest of your life like that mah?!!
NO!!!....
torturing yourself over 'a person' whom you don't even have any idea that he had really love Or care about you before?!!
afterall, do you think you should FORGET? FORGIVE maybe a diffcult stage...but other then that, nothing else can be done...but you will realise after doing this...
your heart will be soo much better and become more happy...
Or else, even right now, A right person is already standing right in front of you, waiting for you, you will never be able notice at all..
Finally i realise all these facts and truths now, or else i will HATE who i am now...
In fact, i should say a big thank you to 'this person'...let me learn a such a valuable lesson and let me realise how a person can change soo much within such a short period...how scarey a person can be...
But i'm still looking forward to the days, where me and him can just be friends again bah...
(because i know when i'm ready to be friends again with 'this person' means he has no longer hold any rights to get a vacancy in my heart again...)
In fact i'm ready for that, but i know 'this person' may not be able to do that...
I just want to get someone who really love who i am...
i want you back at 1:23 AM
0 on-lookers thought having you back was easy
0 on-lookers thought having you back was easy